helen says

"it s only a job; there s no need to get upset over it."

well said helen. i was never too close to her but i think her mood is much lighter and definitely a happier person since leaving the "public"- how she calls it. and i have her contact. and she says to call her anytime. im definitely contemplating making a switch but again, time is not ripe.

teck has said " good things come to a patient man."

well said teck. i ll wait and good things will come to me.